Oh.............Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha..............

So, I'm..............chuckle, ha ha ha ha...............so mad I could spit nails.  Not the first time, probably not the last.  I know this.  My daughter-in-law, mother of my only grandchildren is...........gritting my teeth, smiling, breathing deeply, is on my last fucking nerve.  God love her, she's....................she's...................a good mother, a loving mother.  My son loves her.  God love her, she's, deep breath...............awesome.  blank stare, slow grin

 

I've tried to contact her three times in the last two weeks in order to ask her about the upcoming wedding of her brother-in-law, my oldest child.  I know she hates his fiancee, hell, she doesn't like my daughter, but..........we're family and...........we power through the bullshit.  But............sucking my teeth and trying to smile, she doesn't seem to want to or think she has to.  Oh, chuckle, oh................ha ha ha ha ha ha ha..............she's still got some life lessons coming.  I will not contact my son, her husband about this, this isn't his, it's ours. 

 

I'm on the edge of losing my temper, that is NEVER a good thing.  Never.  I know all sorts of shit about what my DIL, my future DIL and my daughter have said about each other.  Oh, I'm fully loaded for bear and I SOOOO want to teach, but.................for now, I won't.  And, before any of you start with the "you don't want to lose....", "you would miss out on...." or anything else, chuckle, please............don't.  I've lost a whole hell of a lot in my life and it took me almost 50 years to figure out I GET to be who I am and the cost of that is mine.  I'm alright with it.  I'll live through it.  Chalk up some MORE disappoints in life as I refuse to be...................treated as if I don't exist.  Nope.  It's worth it. 

 

 

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Comments (7)

  1. noahbody

    (((HUGS))) It sounds like a difficult situation. Good luck with it.

    February 17, 2017
    1. GoldenPig2012

      Well…………..it will be resolved in one way or another.

      February 17, 2017
      1. noahbody

        I hope it turns out all right for you. That is what counts.

        February 17, 2017
        1. GoldenPig2012

          I’ll keep you posted, dear.

          February 18, 2017
  2. Bettymom

    I agree with Tony. And besides, I just love weddings and I’d hate to see anything keep you from going!! And on another front – our car is called gray with pink overtones. I wonder if that would do? I could remove a fender and send it to you for matching colors. Maybe not.

    February 17, 2017
    1. GoldenPig2012

      Ha ha Ha Ha Ha………………hell, I could wear the fender and call it nouve haute coutre. I’ll need some gray/pink bungee cords and duct tape and I’d be set!

      February 18, 2017
      1. Bettymom

        Duct tape is the ideal touch. Wish I’d have thought of it! And you can use the original gray color. Perfect! Now, about those bungee cords …

        February 19, 2017